Tantrachick on Patreon

Hey lovelies, I wanted to thank everyone for the comments, message, and emails of support for my new endeavor. Many of you may not realize that I have an incredibly shy side. I also have judgmental voice seemingly locked in the depths of my subconscious mind. Until recently, I have only been able to express…

Vulnerable Pleasure

Hey lovelies, There have been so many new and exciting changes in my life that it will take multiple blog posts to share it all with you. I have been silent for so long now, I was afraid I may have lost my voice. But the new experiences I’ve been having within my relationship have…

The Intention of Touch

When you touch your lover, what does it mean to you? What is your intention when you touch your lover? Do you touch with your hands? Do you touch with your heart? Do you touch with your soul? Where do you feel the sensation of touch? Is it localized? sensations tingling through your fingertips…soft, subtle,…

Working From Home is Bliss

Hey lovelies, Although I am not ready to publish my books yet, I have been writing daily for some time now. I feel so incredibly blessed to be able to stay home and write full time. This morning I woke up just after 9 am. It was an overcast day, but there was something magical…

Loss and Love

Hey lovelies, Those of you who have been reading my blog for awhile may remember the adventures our family had while living in Arizona. During the 6 months we lived off-grid we continually rescued animals. The area we lived had an abnormal amount of animals in need. At one point we had 2 cats, 2 rabbits,…

Candid Photo of Joy

Hey lovelies, Earlier today I happened upon another blogger’s post about body image. Her voice was strong, her related image was stunning in a candid kind of way and she seemed like a very brave woman. Unfortunately, I didn;t save her post so I cannot share it with you, but she got me thinking about…

Flow With Joy

Hey lovelies, It’s cool, overcast day here in m little slice of the Midwest. Perfect day for writing and soaking in my hot tub! Just about to grab a coffee and head to the tub but was inspired to write a bit first. If you have a mind like mine, then you are already fully…

What if You Could Be Bliss?

Hey lovelies, I have been contemplating the power of accessing states of pure bliss through sexual connection. There are so many ways we can feel sexually connected. We can, of course, feel connected to our lover(s) but beyond external connection, there is a deep, profound level of bliss that can be experienced through internal sexual…

Love Your Life

Hey lovelies, So, it’s been awhile. I have been living life, learning new things, and going on adventures. Lots of changes and updates, but I’ll save those for another day. Today I want to talk about what it is to LOVE your life. As many of you know, I’m a bit of a gypsy, which…

Tantrachick on Instagram

Hey lovelies, I have received a lot of emails and messages asking me if I’m okay. I am more than okay, I am living a truly blissful life. So much has happened since I last blogged that I don’t even know where to start. Rather than try and share each detail of my life with…

Hope you’re having a lovely afternoon…Loving my new nightie! From my heart to yours, Joy

Photos of Tantrachick

Hey lovelies, Thought I would share a few photos from the weekend. Hope you are all enjoying this most blissful Sunday! I know I am… From my heart to yours, Joy

Erotic Hypnosis

Hey lovelies, To be 100% honest, I have been insanely bored since I moved to the Midwest. I have no family, very few local friends and the area I live is seriously lacking culture. I spend my days writing, reading, painting, drawing, masturbating and doing my yoga and meditation practice. Not meaning to sound like…

Sensual Exploration

Hey Lovelies, So my daughter’s tattoo parlour is kicking some serious ass! She has been featured in the media and recently got busy enough that she needed to hire another tattooist! I help her with some of the business logistics, including hiring. I found a young tattoo artist who was at the time living in…

Sensuality

Hey lovelies, I have been contemplating sensuality on such deep levels I haven’t even been able to write about it. There is a quote that I feel describes me… “I am not suited to polite society To social striving, upward mobility, and making good impressions I am radically honest, sensitive, brilliant, and blunt I hold…

Body Image Day 5

Having a blissful weekend. Lots of family, good food and laughter. Just a quick selfie for today…I have literally only ever taken a handful of them…hope your weekend is bliss! From my heart to yours, Joy

Body Image Day 4

Feeling a little better today…loving my new tattoo. I know it isn’t for everyone but I love her! I also like my cleavage. It is hard to get a boob selfie but here is my attempt…Part of the reason I love my breasts is because they nourished my four babies…Have a blissful Friday! From my…

Body Image Day 3

So, I got a tattoo today. Her name is Samantha, she’s a pin-up girl…to honour my dancing days…and to support Top Freedom for women. Gotta remember to embrace your wild side! My tattoo was done at Viva La Vida Tattoos (my daughter Eden’s shop) by her guest tattooist, Barron Bon Chance McCollum who is visiting…

Body Image Day 2

Well, over the past few days I have been working on reconnecting with my body. I finally had a few revelations and breakthroughs today! I am back to my daily orgasmic meditation and Kundalini yoga routine. I am also drinking green smoothies and eating a raw rainbow of fruits and veggies that are organic when…

My Bliss My Body

Hey Lovelies, I hope you are enjoying this deliciously blissful summer we are having! Things have been blissfully busy for me. I realize I haven’t been blogging much recently. I guess part of the reason is that I have been suffering from an unknown ailment that seems to be connected to my thyroid. I don’t…

The Sexy Feminist

Hey lovelies, I am back from my adventures, feeling inspired and seem to have a lot on my mind lately that I’d like to share! This morning as I was laying in bed responding to emails and messages, I accidentally it a link to an article about “modern feminism”. I did NOT like what I…

Pueblo With Joy!

Hey lovelies, I am so excited to share my photos from this journey with you. These are from my day in Pueblo. I must say, Pueblo has stolen my heart! Such a beauty-full and incredibly friendly place with such lovely little shops and awe-mazing restaurants. I hope your life is bliss! From my heart to…

Sensuality: My Life’s Passion

Hey lovelies, Today has been an inspirational day. I have been speaking with a variety of people about the power of sexual energy and awareness. One person asked me if this was my life’s passion. When I answered yes, he asked me to explain more specifically what my life’s passion was and how I live…

Epulse Sexual Enhancement With Joy!

Hey Lovelies, Beyond my focus on coaching and writing, I am also a serial entrepreneur. I have always loved the independence that is attainable through entrepreneurial pursuits. Recently, after posting a question in an online business support group, I made a connection with Kevin, one of the brilliant entrepreneurs behind the new sexual enhancement product,…

Just Say Yes!

Hey ladies, This one is just for you. So yesterday, I was feeling the wave of PMS coming on. I felt a mix of emotions…I was pissed one minute, emotional the next, and found myself lost in a sea of emotions. Dealing with hormones can seriously mess with one’s equilibrium. At the end of the…

Deep Sexy Chill Out

Hey Lovelies, Life has been so blissfully full I have barely been on my computer. Lots of awe-mazing things happening and soon (April 3rd) I am heading to Colorado, New Mexico and Arizona for a 3-week road trip! I am so deeply thrilled, as many of you know, it’s been a while since I’ve travelled….

Release: Book III Miss Joy

Hey lovelies, This week has been so interesting. When I was 16, I got into a fight with my step-dad and he kicked me out. He is an all around good guy, no judgments were, just giving you a bit of the background story. So I ventured off to the big T.O. (Toronto, Ontario) without…

Guest Post: Ava Sterling

Hey lovelies, Miss Ava Sterling recently commented on my blog and curiosity got the better of me so I checked out her site and fell in love with her erotica. Her work is juicy, sexy, sassy, and I have deep respect for the level or bravery it takes to publish erotica. I asked her if…

BLINDFOLDED: Book II Miss Joy

Hey Lovelies, I gave you the gift of DOMINATED: Book I of the Miss Joy Series…My character, Miss Joy is continuing to discover more about herself as a Dominatrix and a seductress in BLINDFOLDED: Book II of the Miss Joy Series. One of my readers just asked how he could access the second part. I…

Authentic, Erotic Joy

Hey lovelies, I am almost finished the second installment of my story. I enjoy the unfolding process as the words, thoughts and feelings flow through and from me. The story takes shape as I write it which is a truly inspirational and sensuous journey. The private feedback I received via Facebook messages, emails, etc. was…

Erotica: Miss Joy

Hey lovelies, Because I have neglected you all, I thought I would send you a special Sunday surprise. This is installment one in a series of erotica shorts I am writing. I am posting the first one free but I am also in the process of creating my erotica author site, so if you like…

Come to the Edge

This is one of my favourite quotes. To me, it illustrates the fact that it is only our fear that holds us back. Once we conquer our fear, we can truly fly. “Come to the edge,” he said. “We can’t, we’re afraid!” they responded. “Come to the edge,” he said. “We can’t, We will fall!”…

BUTI Yoga!

Hey Lovelies, I have recently begun practicing BUT Yoga and I am deeply, completely and utterly in love with it! To feel your breath, your body, and your spirit soar through the movements. Beauty-full. I hope to take a certification course in June. Thinking Hot, Naked BUTI Yoga on the beach would be total bliss! Thought…

Sensual Relaxation by Joy

Hey lovelies, I finally got my office and my new Blue Yeti Mic set up! This is just a test video to check out the sound quality. There may be a few glitches but I wanted to share this journey with you. EnJOY! 😉 From my heart to yours, Joy

Intimacy and Connection

Hey lovelies, As many of you know, I am an Intimacy and Sex Coach. For those of you who don’t fully grasp what a sex coach is, it basically means that I help individuals and couples increase their sexual intelligence, enhance their pleasure and re-discover their passion. One of the biggest challenges I face is…

Sensual Relaxation

Hey lovelies, I have been blissfully working away on a variety of projects the past few weeks. I am writing daily (erotica mainly), painting, doing Buti Yoga (my new found exercise passion) and working on a few projects that are directly connected to my practice. Today I have my lovely cleaner over to help me de-clutter,…

Why I Dance

Hey Lovelies, As some of you may know, I love to dance! For me, dance is vital to my happiness; dance is essential! I absolutely love this mini documentary about the power of feminine energy and dance. I hope to create a similar video in the future that celebrates the power of TantraDance™ EnJOY! <p><a href=”https://vimeo.com/119494981″>Why&#8230;

Being Vulnerable

Hey lovelies, During my coaching sessions with Nicholas Chalmers, shit got real. He asked me some penetrating questions (no pun intended). We conducted our sessions via Skype, which seems to bring the core challenges to the surface much more rapidly than during an in-person session. I think it’s because there are no distractions. There is…

Erotic Trance Continued…

Imagine if you would, that your lover gently removes your clothes layer by layer until you are standing completely naked in front of your beloved. Without uttering a single word, your lover guides you to your bed, where you lay down on a blanket so soft your feel as if you are floating on a cloud….