Believe it or not gents, the ladies tend to think about sex nearly as often if not more than you! There is this funny little illusion that women do not like sex, or don’t think about it as often as men. I hate to break it to you, but if your woman isn’t interested in riding you like the stallion you think you are, it’s likely that something in your relationship (sexual or otherwise) is not working for her.
Another illusion is that a man who masters the latest and most interesting sexual skills will be able to rock any woman’s world… while this may be true to a degree, over time, this system of mad love making skills tends to break down and can even become a bit mundane for the receiver. If you happen to be a player who moves from woman to woman, it may work for you, but in the bedroom of a comitted relationship, diversity is key.
I conducted a bit of research to see which position is most enjoyed by women… I have to say, i was a bit surprised, but it seems that the cowgirl is the favourite sex position of a high percentage of ladies. Reason being… you guessed it…control:-) Even the most independent thinking, liberal, and down right empowered woman gives up control to men in certain areas of life, so in the bedroom, we like to take back control!
Some benefits of this position…. if you know how to angle your body right, g-spot stimulation is possible…, you can tease your man by bringing your nipples just in front of his tongue and then moving away swiftly just before he reaches you… In addition, being in control, of course, is a wonderful aphrodesiac:-)
According to Ask Men.com, there are a few tricks men can employ to increase a woman’s pleasure…”Sex position savvy: It may be tempting to just sit back and enjoy the scenery, but if you’d like to really rock her world, tease her breasts and nipples with your tongue and trace the curve of her waist with your fingers; these moves will magnify her pleasure.”
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