My absolute number one turn on….watching my lover cook a delicious meal:-) I am one hundred percent serious. This post was actually my lover’s idea. I was trying to think of something to write about and he said what about non-sexual aphrodesiacs. At first I didn’t get what he meant, so he elaborated. He said so many guys are thinking about what happens in the bedroom that they don’t realize how important what happens out of the bedroom is. He admitted that if he wants to have really hot sex with me, he cooks Indian food. His message to you: if you want to get some, you have to find your lover’s non-sexual turn ons.
I have to say, I hadn’t really thought about it, but there is something so primal about watching him cook. I like to sit back with a glass of Shiraz, listening to singer song writer radio on Pandora and just watch him in the kitchen. The mixing, pouring, tasting, it’s all so incredibly sexy! Not to mention the core message is that we are equals and that he cares enough to put in the extra effort to make a truly beautiful and tasty meal for me! It’s really funny, but I can’t think of anything that leads us towards better sex. Well, I suppose the only way to create a more sensual evening would be to top it off with a Tantric massage.
The Bottom Line: good meal + nice glass of wine+ soak in the tub + candles + Tantric massage = mind blowing sex that the toughest man would beg for.