Imagine if you would that you were able to let go of thinking of sex or your sexual thoughts as taboo. That you were able to ignite your passion, free yourself from sexual stigmas and the guilt or shame associated with having an active libido.
Imagine that you were able to completely and totally not only accept, but entirely embrace your sexual energy and your appetite for sex. This is one of my wishes for you…that you embrace all aspects of your sexuality. It is something that I have been working towards my entire life.
For the longest time, I wished I had a “normal” life passion and purpose, but no matter how much I tried to discover a different passion, I kept coming back to the realization that my passion is sex, sacred sexuality, love, making love, and human sexuality in general. Since you found your way to my blog, I can only assume that you also have a keen interest in sex, Tantra, or some aspect of sexuality.
I am here to tell you that it is okay. It is healthy, as long as you find a positive way to express your sensual energy and your sexual appetite. For me, expressing myself sexually means waking up and having an orgasm before my coffee. Then, during the middle of the day, I have a shower or a “nap” and through an orgasmic meditation, I often have another 2 or more orgasms.
Even after having multiple orgasm throughout the day, by the time my lover gets home, all I can think about is a good shag. Yes, as you can see, I like sex and I love multiple orgasms!
I am sharing this with you so that you can reflect on your own sexual appetite. For years I held back. I felt so much guilt because my mind, if left on auto pilot, would automatically turn to thoughts of sex. Because I was repressing an important aspect of my being, my sexuality, I actually felt physically ill. I developed cysts on my ovaries, had intense cramps before and during my moon cycle, and overall I felt just plain crappy.
It wasn’t until I gave in to my inner sex Goddess, allowed her to come to life and to merge with me that I felt truly alive and magically, my physical body healed. I attribute my healing to multiple orgasms and fantastic, soul fulfilling sex. Think that sounds crazy? I beg to differ. According to Web MD, the “10 Surprising Health Benefits to Sex” are as follows: sex boosts immunity, lowers your blood pressure, improves cardiovascular health, boosts self esteem, improves intimacy, reduces pain, reduces prostate cancer risk, strengthens pelvic floor muscles, helps you sleep better and even helps you maintain a healthy weight. Sex is literally what the doctor orders. Sounds good to me!
How do you express your sexual energy? Do you ever feel guilty for thinking of sex too often? If so, let it go! Accept yourself as you are. As long as you find a healthy outlet (consensual partner sex, masturbation, orgasmic meditation, or even directing your sexual energy into your hobby or passion) there is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. That’s all she wrote. Sweet dreams.