So, for those of you who don’t know me personally, you may not be aware of the fact that my husband and I have two of our best friends, a couple who recently moved here from AZ with their two kids, staying with us. They are here for at least the end of July and possibly the month of August while they figure out their next step.
It has been a big shift for our family, but a fantastic one that has had some unexpected benefits! There is something about connecting regularly with another with another couple and having extended community that is so innately healthy for us!
Because we had so many family members visiting and I had suffered from a ruptured cyst, our sex life had taken the back burner…maybe not compared to other folks, but for us, having sex 2-3 times per week is simply not satisfying.
I have been pleasantly surprised by the increase in both the frequency of our sex and the quality as well…I was honestly concerned that having so many additional long-term house mates might dampen our sex life. However, mmmm…..we have been making such sweet, connected love that it literally makes my heart sing!
Last night, after sitting with our friends chatting over a glass of wine, Mountain went to bed a bit earlier than my normal bed time, so we didn’t get to connect, but when i went to bed, I was met with his glorious erection against my thigh!
I was so pleased to have the opportunity to make love as our affection and arousal had built all night long…we entered an ecstatic trance-like state and rolled together like a gentle, but forceful wave from position to position…I experienced rush after rush of beautiful orgasmic climaxes, as did Mountain. Beautiful! It is interesting how, when we are emotionally satisfied, the quality of connection is so much more fulfilling and intense!!!