I read an intense post yesterday, that made my head spin…not a little, a lot. The woman in the post expresses that she thrives on the intense pleasure she receives from being entirely submissive to her male counter part. Hmmm….I must admit, I cannot relate. Not on any level.
It’s not that I have never been tied down and ravished, that I enjoy, but to fully submit to another person and therefore communicating both verbally and non-verbally that he/she is my…joy chokes on her words….master! F@*K no!!!! Not this chick!
Playing sex games, I like, messin’ around with sex toys, so-so, giving over my control, so-so, taking control, well now we’re talkin’! What I gather from this is that, in the event that I was somehow forced to choose one role…submissive or dominant, I would definitely choose dominant. Though I would never be capable of causing another being, especially not a being whom I love any true pain or damage, so maybe I’ll just leave the whole sub/dom saga to those who are truly drawn to it…just my two cents.
If you were forced to choose between sub or dom, what would you choose and why? If you have any questions for me regarding my personal choice and perspective on this or any other topic related to sex, sexuality, Tantra, or anything else between the sheets, please ask away! From my heart to yours, Joy