You might be thinking; WTF Joy? I’m a guy, like I don’t know how to have an orgasm. In fact, you may even be reading this article just to find out what kind of nonsense I’m peddling. Well, I’m not peddling anything. What I am doing is trying to share an important message; a message that every pleasure seeking male should know. There is more to your orgasm than meets the eye.
Rather than writing a silly post with bullet points, random tips and a lot of hot air, I am going to take you on a visual journey. First, let’s explore what having an orgasm looks like for most men.
The average guy wakes up, walks into the bathroom and locks the door. He then takes care of his morning business and if he has time, he might jack off in the shower. He likely spends 2-5 minutes rubbing and tugging on his member before he ejaculates. The pleasure he feels during his orgasm lasts for a few seconds and then it’s back to the morning routine.
Although the above routine provides a much needed “release”…often times, it is not overly fulfilling. In fact, it can leave a guy feeling dissatisfied and longing for more. More, more, more…PLEASURE! More, more, more…CONNECTION! More, more, more…did I mention pleasure already? Yes, but one can never have too much pleasure!
So, how do you transform yourself from a rub and tug master to a man who truly masters his pleasure? Let’s explore what this looks like together. Your day begins 15 minutes earlier, because you want to make sure you have the time to truly experience bliss during your self-pleasuring routine. You lock the door, take care of your other bodily needs and then turn on a steamy, hot shower.
You step into the shower, and simply stand under the stream of warm water, feeling it cascade off your body. Then, you simply begin focusing on your breath. After you take a few deep, mindful breaths, you place one hand on your lingam (your penis) and one hand on your heart Chakra (the space in the middle of your chest).
You continue breathing and imagine that you are cultivating and channeling your sexual energy throughout your entire body. You feel the power of your sexual energy as it begins to fuel your desire and activate your arousal.
You feel your body’s reaction to your breath, the sensuous water and the power of your masculine sexual energy. As your arousal grows, you begin self-pleasuring…slowly, giving yourself permission to take your time. As you continue, you can explore your body; the body that exists beyond your lingam.
You see, a lot of men place most of their focus on their lingam when they feel aroused. What you are going to do is overcome the urge to simply tighten your muscles and give in to rapid ejaculation. No, instead, just go with the flow and allow your sexual energy to grow.
This process of self-awareness and sensuous exploration increases your pleasure and provides you with a deeper connection to your sexual energy. After exploring your body, breathing sexual energy to every aspect of your being and giving yourself permission to experience pleasure; simply let go. Give in to pleasure and let it flow freely throughout your entire being.
From my heart to yours, Joy