Sensual Relaxation


One of my past clients sent me this email and told me she would like me to post it on my blog so other people could understand what a phone session with me is like. I enjoyed her description of the process and thought you might as well. It was interesting for me to hear about the experience from my client’s point of view. These are her words with no edits or alterations. EnJOY!

“I came across Joy’s blog a few years back. I found her blunt approach to sexual teachings and exploration refreshing and intriguing. For a year or so, I sat back silently reading her blog in the wee hours of the morn. I found myself feeling like Joy was my dirty little secret. It’s not like the topics Joy speaks about are anything to be ashamed of. In fact, I wish more people would be as open as Joy is about the most basic aspect of humanity; our sexuality.

By nature we are sexual creatures. Although we sometimes find ourselves lost, or disconnected from our inner sexual desire, it rarely if ever goes away. If you are like me, you probably have unmet sexual needs, or desires you feel ashamed of. I not only felt ashamed of my sexual desires, I sometimes even felt afraid of them. I thought that, if I expressed my needs and desires to my husband that he would reject me.

As I continued reading Joy’s blog, I began feeling more comfortable thinking about my sexuality. Over the next year or so, I even found myself being more comfortable exploring my sexuality independently. I won’t get into the details, but I will say it was incredibly liberating. I specifically felt inspired by Joy’s writings about her sex life with her husband. It seemed like sex came so naturally to her.

Then I read about some of Joy’s history. Her sexual abuse, miscarriages and conservative upbringing. I realized that Joy had less support in this area than I had, yet she seemed liberated and free. Thinking about myself in comparison to Joy made me feel an even stronger desire to let go of my inhibitions and dig in! So I booked a phone session with Joy. I wanted to talk to her, ask her questions and really get down to the core of what my own blocks were. I wanted to be free like Joy.

Then I cancelled my session. I don;t know what happened, but as my session approached, I got nervous and couldn’t go through with it. Then I felt so disappointed because I had really been looking forward to the session. So, I booked another session and this time I followed through. Wow! That is the first word that comes to my mind. WOW!

I am not sure there are words to describe what happened during my session with Joy, but it was life changing. Not only for me, but also for my relationship with my husband. I am not just talking about my sexual relationship, but my emotional relationship as well. It was like Joy awakened something in me and it transformed me. I honestly felt like a new woman.

It might sound cheesy, but I feel like I found myself and it was liberating! What is so awesome about Joy is that you can share anything, say anything, express whatever is on your mind and she will accept you. That is what was so moving for me. To speak my mind without fear. To show my darkest side and feel safe and not only that, but also accepted. I talked, I cried, I let go. Then, when I was feeling ready, together Joy and I jumped off a cliff and flew together. The Iceman Cometh by Dennis Potakar

She guided me on a journey that is indescribable. For real. It was my journey, just for me. She had no agenda, she was just there to guide me to where I needed to go. I ended up opening up to my husband and sharing what I learned with him and the effect was earth shattering. We reconnected in a way that I never would have thought possible. I am deeply indebted to Joy. She possibly saved my marriage and taught me how to enjoy myself and my relationship. Thank you joy…as you say, from my heart to you. ~ S.M. :)”

To book a session, please email Joy directly:

$40 per 1.5 hr. session

$100 for a 3 session package (1.5 hrs. each)

6 Comments Add yours

  1. Ray H says:

    A very impressive review of your services.

    Can you share more details about what the phone session entails?

    1. Tantrachick says:

      Thank you, I also appreciated her comments. It is very challenging for me to express because each session is individualized to the needs of the person and also their particular issues. If I have more information, I am able to respond more effectively to this question 🙂

  2. Robin Thorne says:

    I feel fantastic reading this post. I love my wife. But there is no sensuality of any kind. I realize I have responsibility only for what I can do about this. I will try booking a session when I have the money in about a month. I can not give my credit card number though. It is on a joint account with my wife. However this can be worked out. I want to say wow to. thanks for the hope. Date: Sat, 3 May 2014 21:29:19 +0000 To:

    1. Tantrachick says:

      I am glad you found peace within. Being comfortable with your sex life is an important part of being a sexually empowered individual. You can only take responsibility for your own sexuality and continue to gently encourage your wife in a loving manner. You are welcome and thank you for being a part of the conversation! From my heart to yours, Joy

  3. donald lyons says:

    Where are you located ? Thanks, Don

    1. Tantrachick says:

      I live in Iowa of all places, but I am Canadian 🙂

Leave a Reply to Tantrachick Cancel reply

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.