Embrace Your Sexuality!


You’re right, I have not blogged in days (you know who you are 😉

I guess overall, I have been quite busy keeping up with all of my sensually empowered students! I have been seeing an increase in requests for sessions lately, with my VIP offering seeming to be the most appealing. For me it is a total immersion in the lives and in most situations the sex lives of a handful of eager and willing participants.

I am simply loving it! Each time I check my email, someone is either scheduling a session, or providing me with insights about their progress. It is uplifting and deeply enJOYable (pun intended). Over the past few years I have so many times considered pulling away from sexuality, but I can never get myself to do it.

Today was an excellent example of why I do what I do. A potential student/client sent me an email saying I was possibly the answer to his prayers. I won’t get into the details, as I do not have his permission to share, but he was so blown away after speaking to me, that he booked the VIP training without a second thought.

He had already been reading my blog and thinking about this for sometime, but was afraid that his “taboo focus” would cause me to shut down communication with him. After speaking with him for almost an hour (he needed immediate acceptance and to feel heard) he was so much more relaxed.

In all honesty, his focus is a very common pleasure trigger. I remember years ago a young man came to see me for “severe stress”. It turned out that he was confused about his sexuality and concerned about some of the random sexual thoughts that popped into his mind.

After working with him for a few weeks, his whole life completely transformed. Feeling shame, guilt, and concern about some very normal thoughts and feelings was blocking him from developing a fulfilling life. I truly believe that transforming and embracing your sexuality is one path to leading a well rounded, fulfilling and deeply enjoyable life.

Last night I was discussing my own path to what I refer to as “sensual awakening” with one of my students. It was a nice reminder for me. I have come so far on this path. This summer I will be attending Betty Dodson’s Bodysex Workshop! I am so excited to be a part of Betty’s journey and to learn from both her and Carlin.

I am also in the process of creating a virtual course called “Tantra for Men: Increase Your Pleasure With Tantra”. It will be on the learning platform Udemy and hopefully also available on my website. These are exciting times for me. Just when I thought I might throw in the towel and adapt to society’s version of a career path, my path as an Intimacy Coach is blossoming!

That’s all she wrote. From my heart to yours,


Calm Within
Calm Within

4 Comments Add yours

  1. Ray H says:

    It’s good to be busy when doing the work you love 🙂

    And it’s good when the work you love is such a positive thing!

    Beautiful picture as well. From your own coaching…?

    1. Tantrachick says:

      It is indeed! It is from the photo session for my book, Blissful Bodywork: A Visual Guide to Sensual Massage

  2. Thank you, this is very encouraging!

    1. Tantrachick says:

      I wrote a blog post in response to your comment…I was inspired. Thank you, from my heart to yours, Joy

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