To be 100% honest, I have been insanely bored since I moved to the Midwest. I have no family, very few local friends and the area I live is seriously lacking culture. I spend my days writing, reading, painting, drawing, masturbating and doing my yoga and meditation practice. Not meaning to sound like a lonely housewife, but my life is definitely lacking some of the beauty I experienced while living on the West Coast.
Beyond my normal creative adventures, I mentioned awhile back that I experimented a bit with some light BDSM play. It was nothing too intense, it was more of an outlet for my frustration and boredom. It was fun while it lasted and I still pull out my kinkier than normal lingerie, my glass dildo, and my lovely little whip now and again.
I also love to dance. I used to teach ecstatic dance but have found it hard to find a venue here, let alone people interested in dancing ecstatically together. So I put up a stripper pole in my bedroom. That has provided a lot of sexy, tantalizing fun for both myself and my lover…but I still found myself wanting to dive deeper into sensuality.
I became a Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist in 2006 and use hypnosis in my coaching sessions. I have a couple clients who have been working with me for years…and as their lives transformed, they found themselves developing unique fantasies that they were unable to experience in real life. I found it interesting to watch this process unfold…
As they expressed their deep desires and felt frustrated by their inability to have these experiences, I realized I could be of assistance. Some fantasies can be dangerous if explored in real life. Beyond stds, crossing monogamous relationship boundaries and a variety of other potential consequences, there is also the risk of disappointment. We cannot control how other people behave, therefore it is difficult to play out our fantasies exactly as we want to experience them.
Some people hire a sex work, courtesan or find a willing partner to play out their wildest fantasies. I am sure some of them even feel fulfilled through this process os self-discovery with a stranger who is paid to help them live out their fantasies. But the clients I tend to attract often crave a more spiritual sexual fantasy; one that is difficult to experience unless they have a deep connection with a willing and open-minded sexual partner.
This is where Joy comes in…I have been working on my techniques and continuing to hone my skill. I think that is partially why I was writing so many erotic stories. The deeper I dive into eroticism, the more effective I become at helping others use the power of their minds to experience their ultimate sexual fantasy from the comfort of their home using the most powerful sexual tool humans have. Their minds.
It is an incredibly freeing experience for someone longing to discover more about their sexuality through safe mind focused exploration. At first, I felt a little strange about guiding people into their sexual psyche but over time, I have learned how to embrace this unique talent I have. If you wonder what is lurking in your own sexual psyche and want to explore your desires through a safe, supportive and non-judgmental session, with an empowered woman and skilled erotic hypnotist, please email me: firstname.lastname@example.org
If you have questions, comments or just want to join the conversation, I encourage you to email me or comment on the blog! From my heart to yours, Joy