When you touch your lover, what does it mean to you? What is your intention when you touch your lover? Do you touch with your hands? Do you touch with your heart? Do you touch with your soul? Where do you feel the sensation of touch? Is it localized? sensations tingling through your fingertips…soft, subtle, purely physical. Or do you feel the sensations of touch rippling through your body? Rippling through your heart? Rippling through your soul?
When I touch my lover…with my fingertips, with my body, with my tongue, I feel the sensations of touch rippling through the very fiber of my being. I feel the sensations of touch on a physical level. I feel the sensations of touch in the form of bodily pleasure but more importantly, I feel the sensations of touch deep within my soul. Deep within my heart. Deep within my body.
If you are not in a romantic relationship, ask yourself the same questions. Ask yourself where you feel the sensation of your own touch. When you glide your finger across your body. When you edge yourself towards profound pleasure, where do you feel the sensations of your touch? Tantra asks us to open. Tantra asks us to feel more. To be more. To experience more.
The next time you pleasure yourself. The next time you touch your lover. Tap into the deeper sensations of touch. Let go into sensation. Be one with pleasure and set an intention for yourself and/or your lover.