Vulnerable Pleasure

Hey lovelies,
There have been so many new and exciting changes in my life that it will take multiple blog posts to share it all with you. I have been silent for so long now, I was afraid I may have lost my voice. But the new experiences I’ve been having within my relationship have helped me to re-open my heart, activate my soul, and find my inner voice. I am stronger, happier, and deeply loving these new adventures (don’t worry, I will share everything with you in time).
Over the past week or so, my lover Mountain and I have been talking a lot about what is so special about not only our emotional and spiritual connection but also why, after two decades of connection, our sexual connection is still so mind blowing. So many people say that the “spark” of a new relationship fades with time. Women are often referred to as a “ball and chain” rather than a sexually inspired Goddess who is worthy of pleasure, passion, and loving connection.
For those of you who have been my loyal and dedicated readers (I started writing this blog in 2010), I hope that my silence over the past couple of years does not mean that I’ve lost you. For those of you who are new to my blog, welcome…you are tuning in at a jaw droppingly beautiful phase of my life. Whether you are a new comer or a longtime reader, I will share something with you. Being a sexually empowered woman who enjoys and in fact demands pleasure in her everyday life is not as easy as it may seem. It is sometimes a very challenging path that requires an intense amount of self-love on my part.
Society sexualizes women every single fucking day in the media, in their marketing campaigns, and in pornography. Even though we are sexualized and objectified, we are also expected to be discreet about our sexual needs. That simply does not work for me. I love physical intimacy in its many forms. I am not afraid to say that I love sex. I am not afraid to say that I crave pleasure. I am not afraid to say that I want a deeply passionate and sexually connected romantic relationship. For years I have spoken my mind and then allowed feelings of shame or guilt to creep into my mind. That is the Joy of the past. In this moment, I am releasing the chains society has placed upon my sexual expression. It’s a tad cliché, but I am woman hear me moan (roar) is the saying that comes to my mind (no pun intended lol).
Although I have been writing on this blog for over 7 years, my needs have changed. This blog is hosted on which has limited my ability to shape my blog in the manner I desire. I have a whole new set of exciting adventures, pictures, and posts to share with you on my new site: Beyond my normal posts, I am diving deeper into my sensual expression. I have taken a series of self-portraits that I am truly excited to share.
I am calling my first series of body positive nude self-portraits: Vulnerable Pleasure
It is my hope that you will not only support me on this path, but also join me by commenting (positive, encouraging, and inspiring sentiments you want to share with myself and my blog readers). I look forward to hearing your reactions as well as your desires. I want to create a blog that is responsive to the needs and desires of my audience. Feel free to express your ideas to me and if they resonate with my heart and wild spirit, you may see your vision come to life. So please let me know what you would like to read and experience (through the eyes of Joy).

From my heart to yours, here is a link to my Patreon site: Tantrachick



7 Comments Add yours

  1. Kevin says:

    So so happy to have you back! I am eager to continue reading about your journey and applying what I can to myself.

    1. Joy says:


  2. jeffstroud says:

    Good for you Joy! Yes moving beyond the noise of media and the sounds of unenlightened people is an ongoing courage journey. You have walked and shared, it is your passion and your Joy to do so. Speak you voice, share you passion.

    1. Joy says:

      Awe thanks so much Jeff you are such a good friend and supporter! I hope your day is filled with bliss! From my heart to yours, Joy

  3. Bare Beach Bum says:

    Welcome back! It is great to read you again. Your relationship sounds wonderful. I hope to have a similar relationship this next time around.

    1. Joy says:

      Thanks! Would love to hear an update when you have a minute! Lots of deliciously pleasurable things going on in my life. Email anytime:

      From my heart to yours,


    2. Joy says:

      Hey, hope you are enjoying my current posts and the sharing! Life is bliss! – Joy

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