My Date With a Mistress

I don’t yet have permission to share details…hoping to get confirmation tomorrow during my meeting. I am connecting with a Dominatrix tomorrow evening. My interest in the combo of pleasure and gentle, seductive pain has grown. I know curiosity kills the cat, so wish me luck…I will literally be visiting a the dungeon of a professional…

50 Shades of Grey: Dark Tantra

As a woman who embraces life, adventure, and excitement…and explores sexuality both personally and professionally, it makes sense that my interests would evolve. When I went to the theater to see 50 Shades of Grey, I was only going because the book and movie, although deeply sexual, were totally embraced by main stream media and…

What's Your Pleasure Trigger?

The question of the day? What is your pleasure trigger? What makes you tick and are you happy with your desire? The past few months have been deeply intriguing. I have worked with people from around the world through Skype and phone sessions. Although this is something I have done for some time, in the…

Clarity: Rape, Consensual Sex and The Slut Factor

I just wanted to clarify where I stand on a few issues. My most recent post, which I published earlier today, was written from my past/uneducated/naive in the art of love voice. The teenage me, if you will. I was also more highlighting my home town mentality about “sluts”, which was a constant theme during my…

Dom or Sub?

I read an intense post yesterday, that made my head spin…not a little, a lot. The woman in the post expresses that she thrives on the intense pleasure she receives from being entirely submissive to her male counter part. Hmmm….I must admit, I cannot relate. Not on any level. It’s not that I have never…