Energy Rippling Through My Body

Take a breath. A deep breath and move it through your body. Feel your breath. Be your breath. Feel the power of your energy, for it exists, whether you are aware of it or not. This topic won’t seem to move from my mind. Of course, the power of energy is always present in my…

Behind the Smoke and Mirrors

Being a Sensual Living and Tantric Intimacy Coach seems to have a certain allure to it. I sometimes launch into a conversation with someone, kind of losing myself in my passion for sex, sexuality, and sensuality and then..I look up and their eyes are practically popping out of their head. It is in these moments…

What's Your Pleasure Trigger?

The question of the day? What is your pleasure trigger? What makes you tick and are you happy with your desire? The past few months have been deeply intriguing. I have worked with people from around the world through Skype and phone sessions. Although this is something I have done for some time, in the…

Peace Through Pleasure

We all know that North America is a touch-starved society. One of the issues that is at the core of this problem is that we are not fully intimate with ourselves. Before we are able to build a healthy relationship filled with deep, sensuous intimacy, we must first go on a journey of self exploration…

Warrior Goddess

It was the moment when I felt my breath being squeezed from my body. It was then that i gave up. I gave in. He had defeated me. My spirit was broken. My soul ripped from my body. I was nothing but a shell of a woman. I had become a victim. Spirit broken, soul…

The Art of Being Joy

During a recent session, I was completely baffled by my client’s lack of awareness about the art of deeply satisfying sensual interactions. In the past, various people have sought my services and in their own way, I found that they looked to me as an expert or even a guru. In my mind, I am…

Not a Nudist

If you take offense to the title of my blog, I am passing the buck to my fellow Salt Spring hot tub goers, who came up with the title during a hot tub chat. Sunday afternoons, generally around 3pm, I head to my local swimming pool and soak in the hot tub. Often, there are…

Erotic Enigma

I think I may have written about this topic before, but I have a deeper understanding of the meaning and how it applies to me:-) First, the definition… e·rot·ic/iˈrätik/ – Of, relating to, or tending to arouse sexual desire or excitement. e·nig·ma/iˈnigmə/ – A person or thing that is mysterious, puzzling, or difficult to understand….