The Art of Female Orgasm

Another topic of discussion the past couple weeks with many of my clients is the art of female orgasm. I have found it so interesting to talk to men who have been sexually intimate for many years and women who have been sexually active for many years, but still don’t grasp the female orgasm. There…

Tantra With Joy…

During my teens, I was shy, unsure of myself, and had some major self-esteem issues. I had a tendency to dress in bulky clothing that deflected attention away from my body. Part of my motivation was to deflect the attention of my adopted dad who began sexually assaulting me as a young child. My efforts…

Peace Through Pleasure

We all know that North America is a touch-starved society. One of the issues that is at the core of this problem is that we are not fully intimate with ourselves. Before we are able to build a healthy relationship filled with deep, sensuous intimacy, we must first go on a journey of self exploration…

Warrior Goddess

It was the moment when I felt my breath being squeezed from my body. It was then that i gave up. I gave in. He had defeated me. My spirit was broken. My soul ripped from my body. I was nothing but a shell of a woman. I had become a victim. Spirit broken, soul…

The Art of Self Pleasuring

As I step into the darkness of my little Mongolian yurt, I can’t help but stand in wonder. It is pitch black in here, minus the tiny glints of light peeking through the felts on the roof of this ingenious shelter. I use instinct and bravery to make my way to my Goddess altar where I keep my…

Dancing in the Bliss…

LAst night, I cleared house and set up my studio space! I am feeling so empowered! While in Arizona, my location made the idea of having a practice more of a long term goal…although I conducted a few phone sessions, I missed my in person practice. I found myself filled with passion…dancing around my studio getting…

Who Woulda Thunk It

Hey folks,   Sorry it’s been so long! Things have been INTENSE! I just have a moment online to give a quick update…I am heading to Salt Spring to visit my sis…I will be online for a month or two while we are on SSI!!! I will be staying in a tipi…pics to come! I…

Back to the Land…continued…

After finding a nearly 6 foot snake in our home…each of us reacted in our own way. Mountain played the role of the strong, capable husband…reaassuring the kids and I that all was well. Ary, our youngest daughter, and Eden, our teenage daughter who discovered the snake were both terrified. The boys joked around, telling…

Old West Living: the Good, the Bad and the Ugly…

So far, I have shared tiny snippits of what I have been experiencing here in the Old West part of Arizona. So much has happened that it is hard to keep track. I have mainly chosen to share the moments filled with bliss and beauty…and of course, each moment, no matter how challenging, is filled with…

Solstice Magic…

Wish you were here…we’d load up our instrunments…drive to a beautiful piece of paradise…unfold into our surroundings, melding with nature, spirit and companionship. We would share food together, take a stroll under the ocean blue sky, play music until dusk, then strip down to our core, before we enter a dark space filled with heat, soul,…

Do you Want to Know the Truth?

I blog….I blog about sex, sexuality, Tantra, Tantric massage, yoni massage, sexual healing, healing….and then there’s the deep stuff…Sometimes I blog about it too…rape, BDSM, relationships, eros….and beyond eros…and the shadow side of eros…but when it gets right down to it…I blog my thoughts…they flow like water…sometimes, they flow like water as it rolls across…

Photo: Namaste…woman to woman…

This photo, taken at the Inscape Studio in Seattle, by photographer Matt Freedman…illustrates the art of connection… Namaste:  “I honor the place in you where Spirit lives I honor the place in you which is of Love, of Truth, of Light, of Peace, when you are in that place in you, and I am in…