Everyday Love

I am the first to admit that I am a partner oriented woman. Partner oriented might even be an understatement 🙂 I have been in a romantic relationship consistently since I was 14 years old. I have taken 6 months, or a year to be independent of a relationship here or there, but overall, I…

Tantra With Joy…

During my teens, I was shy, unsure of myself, and had some major self-esteem issues. I had a tendency to dress in bulky clothing that deflected attention away from my body. Part of my motivation was to deflect the attention of my adopted dad who began sexually assaulting me as a young child. My efforts…

The Many Masks We Wear…

So many individuals and couples find themselves feeling shameful or guilty about their sexuality, the way they express their sexuality or their sexual appetite. As a Tantric practitioner and Sex coach, the balancing act is possibly even more challenging. My main role in life is as a mother. Secondary to my role as a mother…

Charged Yet Peaceful…

A couple times each week, I connect with my kids by watching movies. Last night we were watching this crazy little movie, Surfer Dude. It sucked pretty bad, I must say. However, I had the privilege of spending time with my oldest daughter, which is so important for us during her teen years. The other cool thing…

Community, Connecion and Great Sex!

Image via Wikipedia So, for those of you who don’t know me personally, you may not be aware of the fact that my husband and I have two of our best friends, a couple who recently moved here from AZ with their two kids, staying with us. They are here for at least the end of July and…

Oh my…the art of passion and sensual writing…

I just finished reading the book, The Lost Diary of Don Juan by Douglas Carlton Abrams. It is simply brilliant! I love the way he expresses Don Juan’s approach to making love with a woman. Not only that, but his style of sensual writing is divine… An example to stimulate your inner passion: “To know…

Inspiration: Betty Dodson

My first introduction to sex advocacy was watching a highschool presentation by Sue Johanson. I remember being amazed at how silent the kids in the auditorium were; her incredible courage demanded not only our attention, but our respect. I still honor and respect Sue’s work, but as I continued to develop my interest in human…

Destin Gerek: Erotic Rockstar

One of Destin’s comments that stood out to me was: “An Erotic Rockstar loves women. This is not synonymous with An Erotic Rockstar loves to fuck women….”

Is Your Woman Deeply Satisfied?

Oh my gents, you’re not going to like what I have to say today! I read a comprehensive study today. The topic being female sexual satisfaction during partner sex. I have to say, even I was shocked! apparently, only 3% of women are deeply satisfied during partner sex! THREE PERCENT! That means that, if you…

Erotic Coffee: Talking Dirty

Oh my, just by thinking aobut it, I can smell the frloral, creamy aroma with a hint of toffee and burnt sugar…The first sip tastes bright with a deep and rich aftertaste. I sense a wide range of flavors: white chocolate, berry, fresh floral. The flavours melt together while dancing on my tonuge. Oh my,…