Tantra: Misunderstood, but Deeply Needed

Take a deep breath she tells herself, all is well in the world. This week has really knocked my spirit down a little. Paul’s comment, which basically says that my clients are mirroring my needed experience at first offended me mildly, but then made sense. I have had so much fear about living in a…

Tantra With Joy…

During my teens, I was shy, unsure of myself, and had some major self-esteem issues. I had a tendency to dress in bulky clothing that deflected attention away from my body. Part of my motivation was to deflect the attention of my adopted dad who began sexually assaulting me as a young child. My efforts…

What the Heck is Tantra Anyways?

These are just some of the dynamic and amazing people talking about Tantra during the Ultimate Tantra Summit! I created this little video last night to help us all gain some clarity on the word Tantra…from a variety of perspectives! Enjoy and remember… The Ultimate Tantra Summit starts tomorrow and it’s free! Sign up for…

Tantra This and Tantra That…

There are currently a lot of articles and conversations about Tantra being featured on social media sites, blogs and websites. This is the basic debate…what is Tantra? Who has the right to call themselves a Tantra practitioner? If you are a Tantra practitioner, are you simply a Neo-Tantra practitioner, or do you dig deeper into…

What is a Tantra Expert? I Suppose at the Core We all Are!

Well, I am feeling mildly nervous, but at the same time fully prepared for my interview tomorrow with psychologist and relationship coach  Farhana Goga for the Ultimate Tantra Summit. It was very interesting seeing my name and picture along with other world renowned Tantra experts… the word expert evokes a variety of feelings in me…the definition:…

The Tantric Path to Awakening…

“Tantrics believe that the body is the temple and divinity lies at its heart. Nothing can match the explosive energy created in the body by pure desire. For millennia, Tantric adepts have harnessed this force as a means of attaining the summits of the mystical life. The energies fueled by passion are used to nourish…

Tantra and the art of kissing!

In  my Just Ask Joy post yesterday, one of Tantrachick’s readers brought up an interesting point. From his basic understanding of Tantra, he had somehow understood that kissing is not necessarily and important aspect of Tantra. I was contemplating this last night and I came to some conclusions about why this might be. If you think…

Lovers

“When the soul lies down in that grass the world is too full to talk about.”
— Rumi

Destin Gerek: Erotic Rockstar

One of Destin’s comments that stood out to me was: “An Erotic Rockstar loves women. This is not synonymous with An Erotic Rockstar loves to fuck women….”

Joyous Meditation: Joy's personal experience

Joyous Meditation is one of the many tools I use for sexual healing and awakening. It is much more than simple masturbation. I enjoy beginning this most sensual and spiritual experience by bathing so that I feel fresh. While I am immersed in water, I take time to set my intention for my meditation. I…