poor persecuted pervert?

Such an important conversation that, though sometimes uncomfortable, must be spoken about! I am very interested to hear your thoughts on this matter, but please tread softly as this is a sensitive topic! From my heart to yours, in Kinky Community 😉 Joy

I Would Kill for Sex!

This morning one of my friends posted a Facebook video of a game show where the question contestants had to answer was: “What would a married man do for sex?”. The women couldn’t seem to get any of the “answers” correct, but the men seemed to have insights to share. Apparently, according to this brilliant,…

Life is Delicious!

I am not sure what it is about the past two weeks, but I am finding that my passion for life is flooding into my body! I know that getting my green card and knowing that in 3 short years I will be a citizen is definitely part of my excitement. I think when you wait…

Joy's Healing Arts Studio!

This week has been so deliciously full! I got approved for my green card, secured my new studio space, and overall I had a wonderfully sensuous week. I cannot believe how much lighter my spirit feels now that I am officially a US permanent resident. It feels as if a heavy weight has been lifted…

Heart Break and Tantric Healing

Hey folks, I think I lost my head for awhile. I had pulled away from my practice and my blog, but recently I have found myself feeling less passionate about life. Then, in a random moment, I ended up in a conversation with a heart broken man who was eating at the same restaurant I…

Awakening Our Sleeping Sensuality

I received a message today from an individual who is interested in incorporating Tantra into his life, yet unsure how to begin. This is one of the most common questions I am asked by my readers, so I thought I should touch base on the topic here. When I first began my path to incorporating…

The Art of Self Pleasure…

Most North Americans find themselves rushing through their day, simply going through the motions, and in general, we have a tendency to disconnected from our sensuality. Relationships, intimacy, and sex are at the core of my life’s passion and purpose, yet I occasionally find myself in this rushed state. When I check in with myself and…

Fire Breath

I am not talking about the video game Skyrim, nor am I speaking of the Breath of Fire taught during Kundalini Yoga. This is just a small visualization that I have developed during my years of practicing sacred sexuality in my personal life. It is one of the techniques I use to bring my sensual…