Not So much…

I forgot to update you. I chickened out. I did not go to my meeting with the esteemed Dominatrix. She texted me needing to change our appointment, which I took as a sign that it was not meant to be. I wanted to clarify my intention for this meeting. I receive so many emails, questions,…

My Date With a Mistress

I don’t yet have permission to share details…hoping to get confirmation tomorrow during my meeting. I am connecting with a Dominatrix tomorrow evening. My interest in the combo of pleasure and gentle, seductive pain has grown. I know curiosity kills the cat, so wish me luck…I will literally be visiting a the dungeon of a professional…

50 Shades of Grey: Dark Tantra

As a woman who embraces life, adventure, and excitement…and explores sexuality both personally and professionally, it makes sense that my interests would evolve. When I went to the theater to see 50 Shades of Grey, I was only going because the book and movie, although deeply sexual, were totally embraced by main stream media and…

Do You Carry Floggers?

Today is my birthday, so yesterday Mountain took me to Flix Brewhouse and Theater for a meal and a movie with sangria. As we were sitting there eating, drinking and chatting about life, Mountain mentioned that I have been a bit more testy than usual. We had a discussion about my recent shift in attitude….

Do you Want to Know the Truth?

I blog….I blog about sex, sexuality, Tantra, Tantric massage, yoni massage, sexual healing, healing….and then there’s the deep stuff…Sometimes I blog about it too…rape, BDSM, relationships, eros….and beyond eros…and the shadow side of eros…but when it gets right down to it…I blog my thoughts…they flow like water…sometimes, they flow like water as it rolls across…

Sexual Healing: Just Take Me…

I agree whole heartedly with  naturegirl1‘s comment” “The problem I would have is that I like to use my hands, so that would preclude any chance of ME being submissive, but more to the point I have trouble equating with any form of “control” over a sexual partner. To me, sex and lovemaking is about…

She Who Cannot be Contained

Image by AlicePopkorn via Flickr Do not try to control me My soul and spirit cannot be contained Do not try to mold me I am a shape shifter Do not try to alter me My true form is pure and beautiful Do not try to leash me I bite Do not try to spank…

Dom or Sub?

I read an intense post yesterday, that made my head spin…not a little, a lot. The woman in the post expresses that she thrives on the intense pleasure she receives from being entirely submissive to her male counter part. Hmmm….I must admit, I cannot relate. Not on any level. It’s not that I have never…

What is an Ethical Pervert?

I am pleased with the timing of Londons’ submission. Makes sense to hear from a man on father’s day! Thanks for your submission, London! I must admit, this is an area of sexuality that I have little personal experience with…I think I may have even learned a thing or two! Namaste, Joy What is an…