Day Three: 30 Day Intimacy Challenge

Hey lovelies, You may have noticed that I changed the title of our challenge from 30 Day Sex Challenge to 30 Day Intimacy Challenge. On the third day of our challenge (yesterday) I had the most intense cramps. Sorry to go all girly on ya here, but a woman’s monthly cycle is part of life….

Erotica and Pen Names

If you have read my blog long enough, you may remember that I write erotica. The erotica I write is not fluffy romance with a bit of sex…it is gritty, naughty and according to one of my readers “penetrative”. I was looking through some of my past titles. They even make me blush and I…

Intimacy Coaching Sessions With Joy

Transformation begins with YOU! How would your life change if you could tap into your full sexual potential? In the past few weeks I have been working with a lot of new clients. After a year of dealing with immigration and work permits, I am excited to be doing what I love again! I work…

The Art of Female Orgasm

Another topic of discussion the past couple weeks with many of my clients is the art of female orgasm. I have found it so interesting to talk to men who have been sexually intimate for many years and women who have been sexually active for many years, but still don’t grasp the female orgasm. There…

Peace Through Pleasure

We all know that North America is a touch-starved society. One of the issues that is at the core of this problem is that we are not fully intimate with ourselves. Before we are able to build a healthy relationship filled with deep, sensuous intimacy, we must first go on a journey of self exploration…

Orgasmic Transformation Cont…

I walked into my bedroom and lit two deep blue candles (represents healing energy). I basked in the beauty of the soft candlelight, while trying to tap into my sensual energy. For a woman who has always had a veracious appetite for sex, it is honestly very scary to fill sexually uninspired. I found myself…

Let's Connect…

On the grid, but not much to say….this is all she wrote…from my heart to yours….from my lust to yours…sweet dreams…. Lay your hands on me… Feel me…find me…merge with me… Let’s connect… Find the me within… Discover my essence… Let’s connect… Dig your breath into me… Into my soul…my body…my mind…my heart… Cherish me…….

Pleasure, and Passion

For those of you who are new to Tantra, I thought I would tell you a little bit about why I love Tantra. First off, through Tantra, I was able to release past sexual trauma, learn how to experience deeply satisfying orgasms, and open myself to my partner on a deeper level than I thought…

Erotic Hypnosis…Ever Tried It?

I thought I would dip my toes in the erotic hypnosis waters to see if I got any bites. If you’re interested in hearing more, you’ll have to speak up and let me know!

Guest Posting: The Female Orgasm Explained

The sexual revolution of the ’70s has allowed women to claim their right to pleasure and to better know their body. However, 30 years later, the female orgasm remains mysterious to a lot of people – both men and women.