Intimacy and Connection

Hey lovelies, As many of you know, I am an Intimacy and Sex Coach. For those of you who don’t fully grasp what a sex coach is, it basically means that I help individuals and couples increase their sexual intelligence, enhance their pleasure and re-discover their passion. One of the biggest challenges I face is…

I am a Woman and I Love SEX!

Hello lovelies, Although it has been more difficult to find my groove here in the Midwest, I still work with women, couples, and I regularly share my thoughts about intimacy with people from around the world. One of the biggest challenges facing couples in long term relationships is keeping their sex lives active enough, engaging enough…

Day Two: 30 Day Sex Challenge

Hey lovelies, I must say, I know i am only on the third day of this sex challenge, but I highly recommend it to couples who are wanting to reconnect. Mountain and I have not drifted apart, we are not having relationship issues, and overall things are wonderful in our relationship. However, the pressures of…

Day One: 30 Day Sex Challenge

Evening lovelies, So day one was a success! It was like the universe laughed at us, taunted us, and threw a variety of intimacy road blocks at us, but we managed to end our evening (even though we tried twice earlier and were rudely interrupted) with beautiful foreplay (sweet chit-chat, holding hands while laying naked and…

Joy’s Practice

Hey lovelies, As you may have guessed, I am working really hard to build my practice and my online presence. I am planning a trip to Phoenix AZ to do a product launch and teach a seminar focused on the Divine Masculine and the Divine Feminine. It is interesting how, when we open ourselves to…

Embrace Your Sexuality!

You’re right, I have not blogged in days (you know who you are 😉 I guess overall, I have been quite busy keeping up with all of my sensually empowered students! I have been seeing an increase in requests for sessions lately, with my VIP offering seeming to be the most appealing. For me it…

Intimacy Coaching Sessions With Joy

Transformation begins with YOU! How would your life change if you could tap into your full sexual potential? In the past few weeks I have been working with a lot of new clients. After a year of dealing with immigration and work permits, I am excited to be doing what I love again! I work…

The Art of Female Orgasm

Another topic of discussion the past couple weeks with many of my clients is the art of female orgasm. I have found it so interesting to talk to men who have been sexually intimate for many years and women who have been sexually active for many years, but still don’t grasp the female orgasm. There…

Tantra With Joy…

During my teens, I was shy, unsure of myself, and had some major self-esteem issues. I had a tendency to dress in bulky clothing that deflected attention away from my body. Part of my motivation was to deflect the attention of my adopted dad who began sexually assaulting me as a young child. My efforts…

Peace Through Pleasure

We all know that North America is a touch-starved society. One of the issues that is at the core of this problem is that we are not fully intimate with ourselves. Before we are able to build a healthy relationship filled with deep, sensuous intimacy, we must first go on a journey of self exploration…

Orgasmic Transformation Cont…

I walked into my bedroom and lit two deep blue candles (represents healing energy). I basked in the beauty of the soft candlelight, while trying to tap into my sensual energy. For a woman who has always had a veracious appetite for sex, it is honestly very scary to fill sexually uninspired. I found myself…

Not a Nudist

If you take offense to the title of my blog, I am passing the buck to my fellow Salt Spring hot tub goers, who came up with the title during a hot tub chat. Sunday afternoons, generally around 3pm, I head to my local swimming pool and soak in the hot tub. Often, there are…