Intimacy and Connection

Hey lovelies, As many of you know, I am an Intimacy and Sex Coach. For those of you who don’t fully grasp what a sex coach is, it basically means that I help individuals and couples increase their sexual intelligence, enhance their pleasure and re-discover their passion. One of the biggest challenges I face is…

Intimacy Coaching Sessions With Joy

Transformation begins with YOU! How would your life change if you could tap into your full sexual potential? In the past few weeks I have been working with a lot of new clients. After a year of dealing with immigration and work permits, I am excited to be doing what I love again! I work…

The Art of Female Orgasm

Another topic of discussion the past couple weeks with many of my clients is the art of female orgasm. I have found it so interesting to talk to men who have been sexually intimate for many years and women who have been sexually active for many years, but still don’t grasp the female orgasm. There…

Tantra With Joy…

During my teens, I was shy, unsure of myself, and had some major self-esteem issues. I had a tendency to dress in bulky clothing that deflected attention away from my body. Part of my motivation was to deflect the attention of my adopted dad who began sexually assaulting me as a young child. My efforts…

Peace Through Pleasure

We all know that North America is a touch-starved society. One of the issues that is at the core of this problem is that we are not fully intimate with ourselves. Before we are able to build a healthy relationship filled with deep, sensuous intimacy, we must first go on a journey of self exploration…

Let's Connect…

On the grid, but not much to say….this is all she wrote…from my heart to yours….from my lust to yours…sweet dreams…. Lay your hands on me… Feel me…find me…merge with me… Let’s connect… Find the me within… Discover my essence… Let’s connect… Dig your breath into me… Into my soul…my body…my mind…my heart… Cherish me…….

Relationship Navigation: The Truth and Nothing but the Truth?

I regularly have people asking me intimate questions about how to make their relationship work. Others want to know what a healthy relationship looks and feel like. While an additional group of individuals simply feel lost…clueless…unequipped to navigate the potential mine field of their relationship. As a writer, a blogger and an intimacy coach…I personally…

Can Tantra Increase My Lady's Libido?

Question: Can Tantra help elevate my wife’s libido? If so, how? Joy’s Answer: As with most of the questions I am asked…it is very challenging to answer a question without additional information of  a very intimate and personal nature. However, I can share my thoughts based on both my experience and the experiences of my clients. If…

How to Supercharge a Sexless Marriage…

I have been reminiscing about the sex coaching sessions I’ve had with couples over the past few years. Out of all the sessions, the biggest concern that many couples bring up is either the lack of sex or the lack of soul warming, satisfying sex with their partner. Typically, during the first couple years of a relationship, the…

Guest Posting: Self Arousal and Intimacy

Self Arousal & Intimacy Whether you are a man, a woman, single, in a relationship, straight or gay. Whether you are in a monogamous relationship, exploring the excitement of open relationships, at every moment, in every day there is an opportunity to connect deep within you. To reveal yourself to yourself. Your fears, your dreams,…

Break on Through to the Other Side….

Okay, so, for those of you who read this blog regularly…you may know that I have loads of company, tonnes of kids AND I am in the middle of a beautifully challenging and intense Tantra Bootcamp! So, my Tantra creative well is, well, to be honest, running a little low! One of my visitors is…

Just Ask Joy: Sexual compatibility, massage and Tantra

One of Tantrachick’s readers, ‘Chris’, asked a most interesting question this week. Although Chris’s challenges are unique in their expression, having opposing foreplay preferences (one partner likes a quick kiss and a fuck while the other likes to make out for hours before making love) is a common issue between new and long-term lovers. Also,…