What Is Porn?

After my recent Porn Addiction post, I received a variety of emails and comments that were not all posted on the blog. With the permission of a lovely fella from Denver, CO, I would like to share the question he emailed me: “Joy. Loved your post on porn, but I have a twist on it that I’d…

Emotionally Safe Sex

Hey folks, In follow up to my recent post about pornography, I wanted to share this enlightening TED Talk video. “Love Porn? Then Don’t Watch This. Because This Guy Is About To Convince You To Delete Your Porn Stash. His arguments have nothing to do with the Bible, or Jesus, or religion at all. Ran…

Don Jon: The Art of Letting Go

Was sipping a glass of Merlot, wishing my lover was home, feeling kind of lonely last night. Decided to watch a movie. Couldn’t find anything interesting, but finally settled for the movie Don Jon. Like many modern-day movies, the director attempted to draw viewers in with tits and ass. I find that a lot of movies…

Just Ask Joy: Lack of Sex Drive

Question: “I have lost interest in having sex with women, and I visit bbw sites to wet my appetite. I don’t understand why…please help!”   Joy’s Answer: I have thought about your question over the past day or so. I don’t have a lot of background information to help me navigate your personal challenge, but…

Destin Gerek: Erotic Rockstar

One of Destin’s comments that stood out to me was: “An Erotic Rockstar loves women. This is not synonymous with An Erotic Rockstar loves to fuck women….”