Roadside Mantras

For the past 40 days, my lover, best friend, soul mate, father to our children and husband, Mountain and I have been writing a short “I love you” comment for each other…today, for my I love you was a song I wrote for him…through I’d share…it’s called: Roadside Mantras she’s just the small town girl…

Relationship Navigation: The Truth and Nothing but the Truth?

I regularly have people asking me intimate questions about how to make their relationship work. Others want to know what a healthy relationship looks and feel like. While an additional group of individuals simply feel lost…clueless…unequipped to navigate the potential mine field of their relationship. As a writer, a blogger and an intimacy coach…I personally…

Just Ask Joy: My Penis is too Big! Help!

Question: “Hi Joy I need help! Recently, while doing a swimming class (at the pool) a lady complained that what I was wearing was inappropriate. She felt I was bulging out at the seams! I’m sick of it and now my girlfriend found out and she’s being distant and un-touching. Being a bit larger is unattractive to…

Trust Has No Price Tag…

I have been contemplating the dance between clients and practitioners this morning…in all relationships, especially professional ones, there are different needs and boundaries that can cause stress or even…in the worst case scenario, negative or shameful feelings. A new client of mine recently felt shameful because I covered his mid-section with a sarong…At first I…

When Is Love Real?

In response to Jeff’s comment: From Jeff: “I wanted to share this with you it is a question Jeff Brown is asking… Whenever I fell in love in 7 seconds, I was sure I was seeing the soul. And then the stuff came- the defences, habits, patterns. And then it was like, wait a minute,…