Sensual Relaxation

Hey lovelies, I have been blissfully working away on a variety of projects the past few weeks. I am writing daily (erotica mainly), painting, doing Buti Yoga (my new found exercise passion) and working on a few projects that are directly connected to my practice. Today I have my lovely cleaner over to help me de-clutter,…

The Art of Spiritual Sex and Self Love

For me, moving to the Midwest and now attempting to set up a full practice here in Iowa has been such an interesting endeavor. I would have to say that there is most definitely a different perspective, mindset and spiritual attitude…on the surface. However, once you dig down just a bit, the people are the…

The Art of Female Orgasm

Another topic of discussion the past couple weeks with many of my clients is the art of female orgasm. I have found it so interesting to talk to men who have been sexually intimate for many years and women who have been sexually active for many years, but still don’t grasp the female orgasm. There…

Tantra With Joy…

During my teens, I was shy, unsure of myself, and had some major self-esteem issues. I had a tendency to dress in bulky clothing that deflected attention away from my body. Part of my motivation was to deflect the attention of my adopted dad who began sexually assaulting me as a young child. My efforts…

Orgasmic Transformation Cont…

I walked into my bedroom and lit two deep blue candles (represents healing energy). I basked in the beauty of the soft candlelight, while trying to tap into my sensual energy. For a woman who has always had a veracious appetite for sex, it is honestly very scary to fill sexually uninspired. I found myself…

Do you Want to Know the Truth?

I blog….I blog about sex, sexuality, Tantra, Tantric massage, yoni massage, sexual healing, healing….and then there’s the deep stuff…Sometimes I blog about it too…rape, BDSM, relationships, eros….and beyond eros…and the shadow side of eros…but when it gets right down to it…I blog my thoughts…they flow like water…sometimes, they flow like water as it rolls across…

Ecotantra: Keep It Simple Stupid!

Sorry for the mildly negative and intensely judgmental title, but I wanted to get your attention:-) I just completed my second interview with Farhana and Alan, who have now conducted both the Ultimate Tantra Summit and the Ecosex Summit.  During my interview, Farhana and Alan brought up an interesting point. They mentioned that some of…

Walk With Me….Into the Realms of Bliss

Let’s meet in the outback…I’ll be wearing the red dress with the black sandals…As I walk towards you, you’ll feel as if my sexual energy is penetrating the very core of your being. Sometimes it literally swirls and dances around me. Today is one of those days. As the sun beats down on your skin,…

Free Massage Anyone? Interview with "MC"

This fellow, “MC” contacted me recently and asked me if I was be interested in interviewing him about his practice. I unintentionally put him off for a month or so, but he was diligent and reminded me of his request. I took a quick glance at his blog and decided to give it a go….

Tantra This and Tantra That…

There are currently a lot of articles and conversations about Tantra being featured on social media sites, blogs and websites. This is the basic debate…what is Tantra? Who has the right to call themselves a Tantra practitioner? If you are a Tantra practitioner, are you simply a Neo-Tantra practitioner, or do you dig deeper into…

Thesis Interview: Tantra With Joy

I sort of forgot about this interview until another university student recently expressed her interest in my work and practice. This is an interview from 2010 with Sarah, who was completing her University thesis project…her thesis paper was spectacular…I only have access to the interview to share, but it was just before I started this blog,…

the Ultimate Tantra Summit…Just Ask Joy!

Well, I have fully completed my interview with Farhana and Alan for the Ultimate Tantra Summit. They mentioned today that there will be a sneak preview of my interview available in the next couple of days. I will share it with you as soon as I receive the link. The interview was a very interesting…