Like a Woman

I must admit, although life sometimes throws me a few obstacles, overall I lead a simple life. Last night I wound down with a couple glasses of Moscato while chatting with my sweet lover. We went to be around 11 pm, which began with a lovely cuddle. I enjoy placing my head on his bare…

I am a Woman and I Love SEX!

Hello lovelies, Although it has been more difficult to find my groove here in the Midwest, I still work with women, couples, and I regularly share my thoughts about intimacy with people from around the world. One of the biggest challenges facing couples in long term relationships is keeping their sex lives active enough, engaging enough…

Day Two: 30 Day Sex Challenge

Hey lovelies, I must say, I know i am only on the third day of this sex challenge, but I highly recommend it to couples who are wanting to reconnect. Mountain and I have not drifted apart, we are not having relationship issues, and overall things are wonderful in our relationship. However, the pressures of…

Sexual Bliss

Do you know what I find quite incredible? While working to help one of my client’s reconnect with their sexual energy, I asked them to explore their deepest fantasy within their mind. I saw a light turn on inside their mind and, although I don;t usually directly ask, for some reason I asked…”What is your…

Tantra With Joy…

During my teens, I was shy, unsure of myself, and had some major self-esteem issues. I had a tendency to dress in bulky clothing that deflected attention away from my body. Part of my motivation was to deflect the attention of my adopted dad who began sexually assaulting me as a young child. My efforts…

Don Jon: The Art of Letting Go

Was sipping a glass of Merlot, wishing my lover was home, feeling kind of lonely last night. Decided to watch a movie. Couldn’t find anything interesting, but finally settled for the movie Don Jon. Like many modern-day movies, the director attempted to draw viewers in with tits and ass. I find that a lot of movies…

Just Ask Joy: Lack of Sex Drive

Question: “I have lost interest in having sex with women, and I visit bbw sites to wet my appetite. I don’t understand why…please help!”   Joy’s Answer: I have thought about your question over the past day or so. I don’t have a lot of background information to help me navigate your personal challenge, but…

Destin Gerek: Erotic Rockstar

One of Destin’s comments that stood out to me was: “An Erotic Rockstar loves women. This is not synonymous with An Erotic Rockstar loves to fuck women….”

Pleasure, and Passion

For those of you who are new to Tantra, I thought I would tell you a little bit about why I love Tantra. First off, through Tantra, I was able to release past sexual trauma, learn how to experience deeply satisfying orgasms, and open myself to my partner on a deeper level than I thought…