Orgasmic Transformation At Your Fingertips

With my emotional self concerned for her future, and truly needing balance, my answer is orgasms! I am heading out the door to treat myself to a taco and a margarita, but wanted to share with each of you my process for transformation and self guidance. It begins something like this…I sit in my room…

Energy Rippling Through My Body

Take a breath. A deep breath and move it through your body. Feel your breath. Be your breath. Feel the power of your energy, for it exists, whether you are aware of it or not. This topic won’t seem to move from my mind. Of course, the power of energy is always present in my…

Intimacy Coaching Sessions With Joy

Transformation begins with YOU! How would your life change if you could tap into your full sexual potential? In the past few weeks I have been working with a lot of new clients. After a year of dealing with immigration and work permits, I am excited to be doing what I love again! I work…

Not a Nudist

If you take offense to the title of my blog, I am passing the buck to my fellow Salt Spring hot tub goers, who came up with the title during a hot tub chat. Sunday afternoons, generally around 3pm, I head to my local swimming pool and soak in the hot tub. Often, there are…

I'll Take You There…

I am afraid….that’s what she said…as I guided her to my massage table…My eyes filled with compassion. This is a typical response from a woman who has “history” and is about to embark on a “Tantric journey within”. I knew not whether she felt apprehensive because she was opening her mind, body and spirit to…

YES: Crack Open your Soul

As you feel yourself floating on waves of bliss, as you feel the shock of freedom rippling through your soul…through you mind…through your body…you shall feel your heart open. As your heart opens, unconditional love will literally fill each and every cell of your being. Beyond the cells of your being, you will feel unconditional…

Walk With Me….Into the Realms of Bliss

Let’s meet in the outback…I’ll be wearing the red dress with the black sandals…As I walk towards you, you’ll feel as if my sexual energy is penetrating the very core of your being. Sometimes it literally swirls and dances around me. Today is one of those days. As the sun beats down on your skin,…

Sexual Healing: From Victim to Sex Goddess

While writing my visual guide to bodywork for couples….my husband and I began talking about our sexual history. It was very interesting to hear his perspective. We got together when I was 24 years old. I had experienced sexual abuse my entire life. My adopted father began preening me for abuse as a baby and…

Sexual Healing: Just Take Me…

I agree whole heartedly with  naturegirl1‘s comment” “The problem I would have is that I like to use my hands, so that would preclude any chance of ME being submissive, but more to the point I have trouble equating with any form of “control” over a sexual partner. To me, sex and lovemaking is about…

Sexual Healing Part 2

Sexual Healing (Previous Post) Even my best friend can’t believe how often Mountain and I have sex. Trust me, with 7 kids ranging in ages from 7 to 21 (we have four in our home and 3 living independently), it is not always easy to ensure that we get our “date time”. When our kids…

Tantra and I

Through Tantric exploration, I transformed from a sexually damaged girl into a sexually empowered woman.